Having an orgasm is an integral part of sexual pleasure. Orgasms not only lead to sexual satisfaction but they are important in maintaining good health. Having an orgasm releases certain hormones that reduce stress, fight depression and allow the body to relax. Here are some of the most frequently asked questions on orgasms.
1. I cannot reach an orgasm, is there something wrong with me?
Plenty of individuals especially women do not reach orgasm, and this is normal. It should not make you worried as much. Luckily, there are certain things that you can do to ensure you reach an orgasm. You can try different sexual techniques that ensure your clitoris is electrified and you reach an orgasm. Also, try doing more foreplay instead of diving right into sex. The right amount of foreplay can give you the orgasm that you have always desired.
2. Is the G-spot real?
Many women do not believe the g-spot exists simply because they find a hard time reaching orgasm. The g-spot is said to provide intense orgasm to the female and is a spongy tissue located in the vagina. Some scientists are adamant that the g-spot exists while some do not agree. There is no need to focus on something that may or may not be because you can still orgasm whether you have a g-spot or not.
3. Why can’t I have multiple orgasms?
Having one orgasm is already stressful for a lot of women, what about multiple orgasms? Many women can get only one orgasm which may be a source of worry. There are many reasons why you are not getting multiple orgasms. If your nerve endings are not electrified the right way, you will not get an orgasm. Also, you need the right environment and stimulation to get multiple orgasms. Ensure you try different sexual positions
4. Why do I get dry so quickly?
The right amount of sexual stimulation causes the vagina to become moist and wet ready for sex. If you get dry quickly or are dry during sexual stimulation, it means your nerve endings are not being electrified. It also means your partner is not turning you on properly and you may need more than just casual kissing to get aroused. Other factors may also be causing your dryness such as stress, breastfeeding, cigarettes, alcohol and medication. Identify the root cause of your dryness and fix it.
5. Why can’t I have an orgasm like in the movies?
Orgasms in movies are made up and fictional. Most actors and actresses do not have real sex apart from porn stars. Even for porn stars, most fake their orgasms for ratings and more views. Orgasms happen differently for different individuals. Some people take five minutes while some take up to thirty minutes before reaching an orgasm. Do not let movies fool you into thinking an orgasm can happen in the first two minutes. Am not saying it cannot happen but it does happen for some people. Go with your body and not what you see in movies and porn videos.
6. Why can’t I orgasm during vaginal intercourse?
The vagina is incapable of causing an orgasm because it does not contain the nerve endings for stimulation. The clitoris is the part that causes an orgasm. Most women do not have an orgasm from vaginal intercourse, but if their clit is rubbed or licked they reach an orgasm. It is therefore normal not to orgasm during vaginal intercourse. However, if you are having vaginal intercourse while at the same time your clitoris is being aroused, you will have an orgasm. Always focus on pleasuring the clitoris if you want to orgasm.
7. Do orgasms fade with age?
Most women tend to think that the older they get, the fewer orgasms they have. This is not true as having an orgasm is all about stimulation and with the right stimulation you can have an orgasm at any age. Older females get more intense orgasms because of their experience.